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Before You Resign

There are a number of reasons to resign. You are unhappy with your current position and find a better one; you are basically satisfied but get an offer you can't refuse (eg: shorter commute, exceptional $, Senior NP responsibilities); you need to relocate. Regardless of the reason, resigning is a process, not just a single act.

Except for an unusual circumstance, you should never resign until you have a firm commitment from the next employer. The commitment should be in writing and include: the starting date, annual starting salary, bonus information (if any), the work schedule and documentation explaining the benefit package. Ideally, you should also receive a written job description.

Once commitment is assured, you are ready to begin the resignation process. It is best to resign both verbally and in writing. Prepare a simple letter for your supervisor with a copy for Nurse Recruitment (or Human Resources). Keep one for your file too.

Eg:

Date
Supervisor's Name
Title
Facility Name

Dear Supervisor's Name,

Effective DATE, I am resigning my position as TITLE in the DEPARTMENT.

SIGNATURE
PRINT YOUR NAME

Sign both copies.

Choose a time to inform your supervisor when s/he can give you undivided attention and you have 5-10 minutes to talk. The latter part of a shift is often best. Be prepared to briefly explain why you have accepted another position and what day you will terminate your employment. (The amount of notice required is generally equal to the vacation days your employer provides - usually four weeks.) If your tenure has been satisfactory or better, let your supervisor know that. E.g.: "This was a difficult decision for me. I've learned a lot here and I've enjoyed working with you and the entire team. But in order for me to keep progressing in my career, I couldn't turn down an opportunity to be a Senior NP." If you are leaving because of unsatisfactory working conditions or other negative reasons, it is best to just focus on the positive aspects of the new position. E.g.: "Working more independently and supervising other NPs is the next logical step in my career advancement."

Your supervisor may want to thoroughly address the reasons for your termination in order to determine whether you could be induced to stay if certain changes were made. In an effort to keep you, you may receive a counteroffer. The counteroffer can include: a higher salary; increased benefits; a promotion; a decrease in hours/less overtime; a promise to resolve the problems or issues which are causing you to resign.

Counteroffers can be counter-productive. Consider the following before accepting a counteroffer:
Why did the employer wait until you resigned before attempting to improve conditions, increase your salary, offer a promotion, etc.?

Once you have resigned, even if you change your mind and accept the counteroffer, your employment will be considered a risk by the employer. The counteroffer could be a way to stall until you can be replaced.

Most often, your reasons for wanting to leave will not be resolved and in a few months, you will have to find a new job again.

Counteroffers are a response to a resignation. Will you have to find a new job and resign every time you don't receive what you deserve?

The next step in the resignation process is to request letters of reference/recommendation. Your new employer will probably require at least one reference from the current employer and two references from previous employment. Ideally, references/recommendations should be from supervisors, either senior level nurses (or NPs) or physicians, who can address the quality and scope of your clinical expertise, assess your interpersonal skills and, if appropriate for the position, discuss your administrative capabilities. Reference letters are generally sent directly to the new employer. You may request copies from your references. Your new employer may prefer to speak directly with your reference(s) or, if you are working with a recruiter, s/he will likely call the reference(s) and then send a written summary to the new employer.

As your last day draws near, you may be asked to schedule an exit interview. Exit interviews serve two purposes: to provide information regarding the status of your health insurance and any monies paid into a profit sharing plan or retirement fund; to obtain information that, hopefully, will translate into higher retention of Nurse Practitioners at the facility. Be honest about your reasons for leaving but be careful if you feel a need to criticize peers and/or supervisors.

Remember the old adage and never burn your bridges behind you.

Good luck in your new job!